Sunday, June 27, 2010

Things People Do - FrancoisTruffaut's Grave; Montmartre Cemetery; Paris




At the grave of French filmmaker Francois Truffaut (born 1932; died 1984) some people, referencing his film "The Last Metro," pay homage by putting their Metro tickets in an urn at the foot of his marker.  (The film's title refers to the need, in Nazi-occupied Paris, to catch the last train home so as not to break the curfew set by the occupiers.)



Friday, June 25, 2010

Happy Birthday to Carly Simon


Once, at Woods Hole, I was deboarding the ferry my friends and I had brought back from Martha's Vineyard.  At the foot of the gangplank I watched Carly Simon, with a small entourage, unfold herself from a limousine.  She went to stand against the ticket office, cuddling within herself against the chill winter wind, waiting to board the ferry which would turn right around and go back to The Vineyard.  Her lovely hands clasped shut, at her neck, her ankle-lengthed coat.  I dared approach the pop diva.  "Hi Carly," I said.  "Can I thank you for a lot of great music in my life? ... I just love so many of your songs."  The wind whipped her long blonde hair.  Those luscious lips formed themselves into a smile, exposing an awesomely wide array of gorgeous teeth, and her stunning blue eyes sparkled.  She pulled her right hand from its snugness and reached it out to mine, "Oh, thank you! Thank you!"


I was surprised at how tall she was.  I thought, standing there, that she ... particularly because of her height ... was one of the most gorgeous women I'd ever seen.


And then, thinking of her recent bout with cancer, I asked, "How are you doing?"  


"Good!  I'm feeling good!"


"I hope so ... a lot of people have a lot of hope for you."


"Oh!  Thank you so much!"


I turned away then to head back to my companions and my ditched cigarette.


And then I thought I didn't get it quite right ... I wished I'd said that I'm crazy about the version she did of "My Funny Valentine," with its amazingly counterpointed arrangement on the piano -- an arrangement which precariously flirts at the very edge of disharmony, seeming as if it is surely going to go awry on the very next note, but which, of course, remains balanced throughout, a daring high-wire act of musical agility.  It's a song I've heard only once, and that was on the radio.  And I might have even mentioned that my favorite of her songs is the sort of lyrics-corny "Coming Around Again" but I didn't even know if that's the correct title of the song; it would have been awful if I'd mentioned some song but given it an incorrect title.  Well ... I might have sung it for her, saying, "You know, the one that goes 'Baby sneezes, mommy pleases, Daddy breezes in ....'"   I love to sing along with it on the CD when I'm alone in the car.  But live, and on my own, it might have offended Carly Simon's ears.  People do tend to cringe when I sing.  But, who knows, maybe my effort would have amused Carly?


My friends and I had, over the weekend, visited Carly Simon's store on The Vineyard ... mostly one-of-a-kind wear.  Outrageously expensive unless you're a pop star.  Shirts ... oh, $200.  Dresses .. oh, $300 or $800.  Outre designs.  There were also some hand-crafted furniture, candles, bric-a-brac, what have you ... some books, and, of course, her albums as well as those of other Vineyard musicians. 

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Julio Ruelas - Montparnasse Cemetery - Paris



This beautiful sculpture marks the grave of one Julio Ruelas, an artist from Mexico who died in 1907 at the age of 38 in Paris.


The Frenchman pictured below, apparently from the neighborhood, was amazingly knowledgeable about Montparnasse Cemetery, and made our visit there many many times better than if we'd not run across him; we asked him one question and he set upon giving us a personal tour and a hundred stories that were not in our guidebook.


I could have googled Julio Ruelas, for instance, and learned his nationality and his vocation and such, but our guide had a story to go along with the facts: In the early part of the twentieth century the gypsies, come evening, would encamp on the street just outside a wall of the cemetery; Julio Ruelas loved listening to their music and wanted to be buried nearby in hopes of hearing it forever.


I hope Julio's wish is being fulfilled night after night after night.



Monday, June 21, 2010

Aretha Franklin - Live!

Seen at Cape Cod Melody Tent Friday night, where there's not a bad seat in the house.  Circular, revolving stage in center, rows no more than 20-or-so deep.  Even when The Queen of Soul has a cold and warns us that she may not be able to hit some of the high notes she's still the Queen of Soul.  Her orchestra was great, especially the pianist.  My petty whines:  she did not sing my favorite "Pink Cadillac" ... and I would love to hear her do "Skylark" from that early-sixties Columbia album that my friend Jim Rann owned.  But forget the whines ... she is great!

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Happy Birthday to My Friend Liz


Liz, going to college, worked as a waitress in our restaurant up in Vermont.  I started to love her very quickly because she was smart and witty and beautiful.  Since her father had died young, I wanted to adopt Liz so I could have a closer, even legalized, connection with such a smart and witty and beautiful person.  She didn't go for my idea but she accepted my love and loved me back.  She thinks I'm really funny and I think she's really funny.


One afternoon I wrote a short story called "Doctor McDonald Gets McLayed" and asked Liz to read it.  She read it that night on the bus going home from work and phoned me to say it was the funniest story she'd ever read.  How could I not love her even more?


I later mailed the story to The New Yorker.  I got a form rejection but with a note written by the esteemed editor (and now novelist and memoirist) Daniel Menaker.  To have his initials on a personal note was a good tickled pink for me.






Now, nearly 25 years after meeting her, I still love Liz as if she is my daughter.  She's the only person I know who would please me by saying, as she did a few moments ago on the phone, and saying it with a certain pride, "All three of my boys are atheists!"  Her boys, all whip-smart, are maybe 10, 8, and 6.


When the oldest was asked if he wanted to go to the ceremony marking his graduation from elementary school, he said, "No ... why would I want to sit through two hours of shit just to be handed a piece of paper?"


My kind of guy.  His mother?  My kind of woman:  Gorgeous, funny, morally and ethically outstanding, and really really smart.

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Excellent Epitaph - West Cemetery; Amherst, Mass.

I looked at a good many graves on four days of touring northwestern Massachusetts.  The above stone, in the same graveyard as Emily Dickinson, has the best epitaph:


Death Is A Debt
To Nature Due
Which I Have Paid
And So Must You.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Susan Sontag - Montparnasse Cemetery; Paris

May 8, 2010

Susan Sontag's essays are beautifully precise, clear, and fabulously interesting.  I will love her forever if only because she introduced me, via one of her essays, to Walter Benjamin, a German intellectual who spent a good part of his life sitting in a library in Paris researching and writing (but almost never finishing anything ... except his translation of Proust into German).  

Kafka's character woke up to find himself a cockroach.  I have wanted a better deal; I've wanted often to wake up and find myself to be Walter Benjamin.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Three Books I Finished Last Week



Martha Gellhorn, born in St. Louis, grew up to become a great reporter, covering wars, more courageous probably than Ernest Hemingway (if he ever really did anything courageous at all or just knew how to write about courage).  Along the way she became Hemingway's third wife.  (Their divorce was bitter.)  She loved travelling to new places.  "As a traveller," she wrote, "I have learned that it is wise not to return to what was once perfection."  

She deserves an excellent biography; this one isn't it.  It's interesting but cluttered, not well organized; and it was a tad disconcerting to read that when she was residing in Mexico in the late forties she brooded "over Arthur Mizenir's life of F. Scott Fitzgerald, which reminded her all over again about how badly his friends had behaved toward him and how ashamed she felt of Hemingway's part in it."

Mizener's biography of Fitzgerald wasn't published until 1972.  When you come across an error like that it makes you wonder what else in the book is not accurate.


Sometimes when I was reading Role Models I found myself thinking: oh man this guy is really weird.  Then I remembered, oh, right, that's one of the reasons I like him so much.  This book is sort of like going out to dinner with him and listening to his wit and great stories without having needed to remember to put my deaf device (as the Irish call it) in so that I wouldn't miss a single word of what he says.  I think John Waters is the happiest person I know, and deservedly so.

It's a beautiful book by the way.  Handsome.  Great textured dustcover and pukey green hardboards.  And funny.  And well-written.  And totally unique.  


Forster could delineate character with a devastatingly slice of words, as in his first novel Where Angels Fear to Tread he writes: "The Reverend Mr. Beebe takes down Emerson's copy of A Shropshire Lad from a bookshelf and announces, 'Never heard of it.'"

Or in The Longest Journey there's the sraight-laced devoutly Christian, Agnes:  "'The soul's what matters,' said Agnes, and tapped for the waiter again."

In real life, Morgan (as Forster was called) and Lily (his ever-interfering mother) "toured the chateaux of the Loire Valley.  Morgan joked to [a friend] that there was 'no escape from Table d'hote.'"
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One of the greatest books I ever read was T.E. Lawrence's Seven Pillars of Wisdom.  Amazingly sensuous prose, constructed in the desert's heat.  Forster and Lawrence were friends.  Wendy Moffat writes:

"The friendship between T.E. Lawrence and Morgan had settled into a fitful correspondence.  Several times Morgan had visited Clouds Hill, the spartan little cottage on the verge of the RAF camp at Bovington in Dorcet, delighting in the raucous male company of Lawrence's working-class enlisted mates.  To mitigate the cooling of their friendship over his strange response to Morgan's ... stories, Lawrence had revealed the manuscript of his next book, The Mint.  It was an uncensored recounting of barracks life, full of foul language and homosexual camaraderie; Lawrence decided, ruefully, that it was unpublishable.

"Lawrence's office work since he had returned from Pakistan was all very hush-hush.  Though he professed to be uneasy about the public image of himself as the icon of British manhood -- debonair, reckless, patriotic, humble -- Lawrence alternately stoked the public fantasy and retreated from it.  One month he would be testing speedboats in the Solent on some top-secret orders from Winston Churchill himself; the next he would hole up in the whitewashed cottage and listen to music on the gramophone .... Morgan accepted an invitation to visit Lawrence there, sensing that [Lawrence] might need company after he was discharged from service.  The conditions would be little better than camping: no toilet, and only the sparest bath in a lean-to, two sleeping bags .... the guest on a little leather banquette, while Lawrence spread out on the floor.  The lane to the cottage was so remote that Lawrence assured Morgan he would place a whitewashed stone in a newly built wall to mark the place.  In early April, 1935, just weeks after he had been severed from the RAF, Lawrence worked with a friend to make ready for Morgan's arrival.

"On the very day that Morgan was to arrive, he learned that Lawrence had been hideously injured in a motorcycle accident just down the road from the white stone in the wall.  Restless and despondent, Lawrence had become careless -- overtaking two boys on bicycles, he lost control and crashed.  Instead of the company of Lawrence, and the Victrola, Morgan found himself attending Lawrence's funeral in the little village.  He stood beside a sobbing Winston Churchill as they laid Lawrence in the ground.
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Early in the year I made a list of the best books I'd read in the first decade of this century.  If I live long enough to make a list of this second decade I know that A Great Unrecorded History will be on the list. All that was wrong with the Martha Gellhorn biography is perfect in this one.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

Happy Birthday to My Friend Jim Rann

I met Jim in Reuter Park in Lansing, Michigan, one night in 1963 ... or was it 1962? ... introduced to him by my Army buddy Richard, whom I was visiting. Anyway, he's been a long-time excellent friend. Above picture taken around 1972 at Harold Beck's apartment in Detroit. In 1988 (I think it was) Jim and Richard and Rodney and I were celebrating 25 years of friendship by having dinner at a fine Cape Cod restaurant; we'd invited Abby because we were all fond of her. I'd had one too many martinis when I looked across the room at a four-top and saw what I thought was some kind of blonde animal curled up on a plate ... perhaps one of those little Pekingese dogs. It was kind of startling ... what the hell was a dog doing sleeping on a plate in a fine restaurant? I tapped Abby's forearm. "Abby ... uh ... uh ... " I felt silly asking, but managed to point and stammer, "Uh ... uh ... what kind of animal is that?"

Abby turned to look, then burst out into what is one of the world's best laughs. "That's not an animal," she said.  "That's [and here she identified one of the town's Selectmen]." Said Selectperson had passed out face down in her plate, her long thick hair falling around her, her three companions going about their dining pleasure as if there was nothing unusual at their table.

Anyway, Jim, I have several thousand happy memories that involve you. Thank you for never being anything other than a good friend!

And speaking of martinis reminds me of a favored Dorothy Parker lyric which I might not get exactly right:

I love a good martini,
but two at the most ...
three I'm under the table,
four and I'm under the host.

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Happy Birthday to Brother Jim!

My youngest brother, James Anthony Fitzgerald, born on June 1, 1943, and, above, looking mighty cool on May 24, 1957!  "Now I've got three buildings full of motorcycles and parts of motorcycles," he said to me the other day.